Heidi sits firmly in the Bad Friend Box

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uh, ma gawhd. Done the unforgivable. Forgotten darling Friend Mix's birthday. I utterly and completely suck. Am trying to figure out what to do to get out of the Bad Friend Box. I am a bad friend.

Friday I had a good interview with UCSF with only one hour, fifteen minutes of commute (BART, bus). I felt kind of iffy on the bus back and came home to find the Steven at home, also feeling iffy. So now we both have colds. I had considerably more sleep than him, so I am running and fetching various liquids and soup for him.

Any hot idea how I can get Mix to forgive me before she comes to visit this weekend? Let me know.

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